Main Character Energy

Every day, we wake up and step into the same story we've been telling ourselves for years. Maybe it's a story of limitation, of being stuck, of never quite measuring up. Maybe it's a story where we’re the sidekick in someone else’s journey, or the background character watching life pass by through a window we’re too afraid to open.

But what if I told you that at any moment, you can change the story?

Maybe that still seems like a whole lot of crap to you, but hear me out…

What if you just started telling yourself something different? Something truer, bolder, and more aligned with the life you actually want to live?

Because you can.

It starts with this: You are the hero of your own story.

Not someday. Today. Right now. In this moment. 

With all of your scars, all of your messiness, all of your magic - YOU are the one you’ve been waiting for…

Rewrite the Script

You see, we don’t get to choose all the plot twists life throws at us. I didn’t exactly choose to shatter my leg on a mountain bike back in 2021, but ohh, the lessons that wrench taught me!

Some chapters in our lives are full of pain, or heartbreak, or circumstances we didn’t ask for, but the beauty of being the Main Character is that you get to decide how the story unfolds from here.

Take a moment to ask yourself:

• What story have I been telling myself?

• Whose voice is narrating it—mine, or someone else’s?

• What would it look like to take the pen back and write a new chapter?

This isn’t about toxic positivity or pretending everything is perfect. In fact, it’s the opposite.

This is about looking at all of the areas of your life that aren’t working, and reclaiming your power to create the change that you seek. This is about recognizing that even if you’ve been through hell, even if you’re still here. You’re still standing. Still writing the pages.

Give Yourself That #MainCharacter Energy

You know that magnetic, unapologetic energy that main characters seem to carry? That doesn’t come from having it all figured out. It comes from deciding: I’m worthy of being seen. I’m worthy of being heard. My life matters.

So, show up like the lead in your own life:

• Romanticize your daily routine. Light the candle. Dance in the kitchen. Take the long way home with the Taylor Swift song on the radio, singing loudly for no one but God to hear it.

• Make decisions like someone who knows their worth. No more shrinking, settling, or self-abandoning. Take up space, sis! Focus on what’s in your control, and act.

• Surround yourself with people who speak to your future, not just your past. You truly are the result of the five people you spend the most time with, choose wisely!

• Give your dreams the same energy you’ve been giving your fears. Show up big for the things you want to do, and the goals you want to achieve. No one is coming. Take ownership. The responsibility is yours.

You Are the One You’re Waiting For

We spend so much time looking for a savior. I see it all the time. We’re waiting for someone or something to rescue us, validate us, and prove we’re enough. We’re waiting to be discovered. We’re waiting for the apology. We’re waiting for the answer or the sign or the right direction…

But the truth is, you’ve always had the power within you. 

You are not broken. You are becoming. And everything you’ve gone through? It’s shaped you into someone brave enough to start again. It has all happened for you. It is still happening for you.

So stop waiting for permission. Stop waiting for the timing to be perfect. Stop waiting to feel ready.

You are ready.

You are allowed to evolve. To want more. To change your mind. To rise up and choose a new path. And every time you do, you’re telling the universe: I believe in my own becoming.

Day One, or One Day?

You don’t have to rewrite the whole book today. But you can begin a new chapter with one brave sentence:

“I choose to be the main character in my life.”

Say it. Feel it. Believe it. Then go live it.

Your story is waiting.
Your power is rising.
Your moment is literally RIGHT NOW.

And guess what?

It’s already a bestseller in the making.

Because The Universe, God, Spirit, guides, angels… have got your back.

What is for you will not miss you.

Just go.

Be Well,
L